Proper Humanity – Lessons for Younger Children

(Lessons for Younger Children)

Summary of Citywide Children’s Meeting
Regarding the Proper Humanity Lessons

May 12, 2024

Lesson 1: Proper Humanity – Welcoming

  • How can you warmly welcome guests to your home? Offer them a place to sit, something to eat, something to drink.
  • Act out different scenarios in skits among the serving ones: one scenario where we are very welcoming, and another where we are being rude – which one is the proper way to welcome others? 
  • Teach the children how to come in and greet someone when they come in – what would you say? Should you be silent or warmly greet someone?
  • Role play: Let some kids go outside the room. Have them enter one by one and have the rest of the children in the classroom welcome them by name, offering them a place to sit.
  • CRAFT/ACTIVITY: 1) Make a house with different furniture pieces – where would you like to put the furniture? 2) Cut and paste furniture onto a paper house 3) Make a big “Welcome” sign for the children to color together 4) Make a Welcome sign for their home.
  • SUGGESTED SONGS: 9576 ABRAHAM – Hospitality Song; 9527 Vessels Unto Honor Song #7; 19 WHEN WE’RE KIND TO OTHERS; 2830 Knock, Knock (A Song about Proper Greetings); 9211 Can You Say How Do You Do? (verses 1-3, or all 6 verses if time); New Song: The Shunammite Woman Hospitality Song


The Shunammite Woman Hospitality Song
Tune: Brahms’ Lullaby

Through a town, Elisha passed, 
Lived a Shunammite woman. 
She was kind, her husband too, 
They prepared an upper room.

With a table, bed for rest,
They provided for their guest —
A lamp and chair, and meals to eat — 
Hospitality, sweet!

May 26, 2024

Lesson 3: Proper Humanity – Peaceful

June 2, 2024

Lesson 4: Proper Humanity – Dignified

  • When we are dignified, we behave properly in every situation. 
  • Teach the children the word “becomingly” for the memory verse.
  • There is a certain order to doing things. For example: eating dinner – wash hands, eat dinner, then dessert, clean up the dishes.
  • Give different scenarios and bring props so the children can act out how they would act appropriately in different settings (ex: library, playground, restaurant, wedding or formal occasion, school, etc.).
  • When you visit someone’s house, you should only enter the rooms you are invited into (living room, dining room, playroom or kitchen). We should not freely go into other parts of the home uninvited. We should not jump or stand on sofas. We can help clean up after ourselves.
  • CRAFT/ACTIVITY: Make a paper plate wheel. The bottom plate is divided into quarters, each one with a different scenario. One quarter could be the verse. Cut out one quarter on the top plate and fasten it to the bottom plate so you can reveal and talk about one situation at a time. 
  • SUGGESTED SONGS: 9539 Vessels Unto Honor Song #19 (verse 1); 4 BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU DO

June 9, 2024

Lesson 5: Proper Humanity – Not Rebellious (1)

June 16, 2024

Lesson 6: Proper Humanity – Not Rebellious (2)

  • One of the biggest rebellious words for children is “No.”
  • Give examples with proper responses of compliance in various situations:
    • Mom gives certain food for dinner, even if it’s not your favorite
    • It’s time to go home or time to go to school
    • It’s time to clean up
  • Craft – Picture of a mouth with good words such as “Yes, I will listen, I’ll eat my vegetables…etc” coming out of it.
  • Songs: 5205 OBEY (Tune: Jesus Loves Me This I Know); 7603 WE LOVE TO PLEASE (Tune of “O We will Praise”)

June 23, 2024

Citywide gathering – Review proper Humanity and Rebellious lessons

June 30, 2024

Lesson 7: Proper Humanity – Forgiving

July 7, 2024

Lesson 8: Proper Humanity – Kindness

July 14, 2024

Lesson 10: Proper Humanity – Not Envious

  • The children can give some examples of when they might feel jealous. For example, you may feel jealous when a sibling or friend or classmate is complimented but you are not.
  • Feeling jealous of not having something that someone else has.
  • MEMORY VERSE: 1 Cor. 13:4m …”Love is kind; it is not jealous.”
  • CRAFT/ACTIVITY SUGGESTIONS: Divide the page in half – one side labeled “envious” with a sad/mad face, one side labeled “thankful & content” with a happy face. 
  • SUGGESTED SONGS: 11 OH, BE CAREFUL!; 199 ONLY A BOY NAMED DAVID

July 21, 2024

Lesson 11: Proper Humanity – Humble

  • Being humble means not showing off.
  • Being willing to receive help, not saying “I already know”.
  • If your team doesn’t win, be graceful.
  • When you win, you can say “good job!” or “we both did great!”
  • Parents can model to their children how to be humble.
  • CRAFT/ACTIVITY SUGGESTIONS: Paper plate wheel: fasten two plates on top of each other with one quarter cut out on the top paper plate. The top plate can say: “I choose to be humble.” The bottom plate can have 4 quadrants. Children can cut and paste pictures on how to be humble. Or write four examples of being humble: Let someone else go first. Help someone. Be willing to ask for help. Don’t show off or brag.
  • SUGGESTED SONGS: 2832 Don’t Be Proud (Tune: If you’re happy and you know it)

August 4, 2024

Lesson 13: Proper Humanity – Love (2)

August 11, 2024

Lesson 14: Proper Humanity – Love (3)

  • There are four lessons on love. The third lesson focuses on loving our parents and neighbors.
  • We should love our parents and love our neighbors. Define neighbors, including friends, classmates, people in their community.
  • CRAFT/ACTIVITY SUGGESTIONS: 1) Print out pictures of the examples in the lesson of how they can love their parents/neighbors. Have the children cut and paste them onto a blank paper with a grid of 6 boxes. Leave the last box empty so the children can come up with their own way to love their parents/neighbors. 2) Same craft as #1 but instead of using examples of how to love their parents, the theme can be “Who is my neighbor?” They can paste or draw examples of who is considered a “neighbor.”
  • SUGGESTED SONGS: 6711 Matthew Song (2) 20 – THE GREAT COMMAND; 19 WHEN WE’RE KIND TO OTHERS

August 18, 2024

Lesson 15: Proper Humanity – Love (4)

  • Unconditional love – God will still love us no matter what we do. His love for us will never change. He also wants us to love others even when they are not kind.
  • Sometimes mom or dad aren’t happy because you didn’t listen, but does that mean they don’t love you anymore? Absolutely not.
  • Love doesn’t go away just because you get in trouble. There is security in your parents’ love.
  • Even if you love mommy more than daddy, does that mean that daddy will love you any less? No.
  • If mommy gets mad at you because you don’t listen, you will still love mommy.
  • God is love. Love is above everything else.
  • MEMORY VERSE: “Love suffers long…” (1 corinthians 13:4a)
  • CRAFT/ACTIVITY SUGGESTIONS: 1) Make a broken heart puzzle, 2) Each child receives a paper heart and cuts it in half. They can trade one of their halves with another child and mend the two different halves together and glue them on a paper with the memory verse.
  • SUGGESTED SONGS: 6711 Matthew Song (2) 20 – THE GREAT COMMAND; 19 WHEN WE’RE KIND TO OTHERS; 162 PRAISE HIM! PRAISE HIM!

August 25, 2024

Lesson 16: Proper Humanity – Not Proud

  • We have to be good winners and good losers (not bragging winners and sore losers).
  • You shouldn’t think you’re better than another person.
  • MEMORY VERSE: “Talk no more so very proudly…” (1 Samuel 2:3a)
  • CRAFT/ACTIVITY SUGGESTIONS: Coloring page divided in 2: one part says “Proud” (with a sad face) and the other part says “Humble” (with a happy face).
  • SUGGESTED SONGS: 2832 Don’t Be Proud (Tune: If you’re happy and you know it); 19 WHEN WE’RE KIND TO OTHERS

September 1, 2024

Lesson 17: Proper Humanity – Sacrifice (1)

September 8, 2024

Lesson 18: Proper Humanity – Sacrifice (2)

September 15, 2024

Lesson 19: Proper Humanity – True

  • Even if no one else knows we are not being truthful, God knows.
  • Sometimes you do things by accident, or you do something you forgot your parents told you not to do. You still need to confess right away.
  • CRAFT/ACTIVITY SUGGESTIONS: 1) Serving one skit: serving one can secretly take something from someone when they are not looking and then deny it. Then they can apologize and tell the truth; 2)  Make a paper plate paddle – thumbs up with “True” and the verse on one side. The other side can have a thumbs down with “Not True”. Serving ones can make statements and the children can use their paddles to show if the statement is true or not true (ex: the grass is green, my name is ______, etc.); 3) Make a paper tree with branches and the children can cut and paste leaves. The tree trunk will say “A True Person will…” and the leaves will have characteristics of a true person (ex: will confess, will not hide, will speak the truth, will tell exactly what happened, will not make up stories, not blame others, etc.).
  • SUGGESTED SONGS: 10 INSIDE ME; 9522 Vessels Unto Honor Song #2 Everything We Do and Say; 9531 Vessels Unto Honor Song #11